If the cold, dark, months of January seem to put a damper on your love life, how about a few date ideas to brighten things up? Depending on where you are, January can bring tons of snow of just some cooler weather. The following ideas should give you some thoughts [...]
You know how it is. You’re out there, dating, and finally meet someone great. You’ve gone out a couple times and are probably wondering when to share that part of your life you wish you didn’t have to talk about. Perhaps it’s the fact that you have a child you [...]
Unless you are one of those rare families who just never has disagreements or drama, you probably expect a certain level of stress surrounding family get-togethers for the holidays. Families are so complicated! Every member is so different, yet also so extremely similar from the next in a way that [...]
Online dating is a great way to meet someone new, but one step daters sometimes struggle with is the profile. What to write? What to leave out? Here are some tips especially for the gals.
Write a Paragraph That Shows Your Personality
Instead of a list (such as “I like horse [...]
Your online dating profile is the one that can introduce you to your ideal mate. To make it the very best possible, here are a few things to do (and some to avoid.)
Watch the Age Range on Your Search Criteria
Men typically will put an age range [...]
If it were up to me, I’d hang out a bookstore or coffee shop and chat up my date. But I know many of you are downright daredevils out there! You want something that will get your heart pumping as well as generate some excitement. For the active and daring [...]
We talked about the mistakes that men sometimes make on a first date, but you didn’t think we would forget about you girls out there, did you? Women can goof up too. Here are a few of the more common gaffes girls are guilty of.
She Talked [...]
Hey, no one’s perfect. Going on dates isn’t always easy, and there are times when you mess up and do something gauche and stupid. Guys and girls both have issues with first dates, and like the sexes themselves they are usually unique. Here are a few of the more common [...]
Sometimes women know when they have a boyfriend or husband who is extremely protective, and sometimes they don’t recognize the signs. It’s easy to mistake relationship habits like constant phonecalls, gifts, and effusive language as “love” instead of attempts to be controlling.
The best relationships have a balance of independent decisions [...]
Who doesn’t love geeks? They’re fun, imaginative, and appreciate someone who is their own person. The word “boring” just doesn’t compute with them, because they’ve always got something they’d like to do. Where to find one of these fabulous geeks? Perhaps one of the dating sites below will help you [...]
You meet someone…. you hit it off…. and then something happens and the person isn’t interested in you anymore. They don’t ask you out again, or, when you ask they turn you down. All of it leaves you wondering why. Here are a few reasons why you might not be [...]
When two people are going out, the time around the holidays can be tricky. After all, there is meeting your partner’s family, traveling, and the all-important ritual of gift giving. Exchanging presents can be stressful if you and your man (or you and your gal) have different ideas about the [...]
While the rest of the country is thinking about Christmas this time of year, many singles are thinking about dating. (And rightly so!) The holidays can be tricky for singles to meet new people and get out for a date, but with a little thought and planning December can be [...]
Getting back together with a recent boyfriend is a huge decision. I’ve seen it happen many many times and I can tell you that it is extremely important to be smart and careful. Getting back together can make you feel both excited and comfortable, which could prevent you from being [...]
I had a really great question the other day from a woman who asked if fighting was good in a relationship. The answer is a qualified yes. Two people who spend any amount of time together are bound to argue. That’s true whether the people are friends, lovers, or family [...]
Holidays can sometimes be a bummer if you’re single. You’ve usually got someone in your family asking when you are going to settle down, or what happened to your last boyfriend, or even if you’re too picky. Guess what? You’re not too picky. (In case you were wondering!) In fact, [...]
Since tomorrow is Thanksgiving, I thought I would talk about an important thing in any relationship, and that’s the apology. Thanksgiving is the time for goodwill, and we often think about the things we are grateful for. Being grateful for a fabulous relationship should be one of those things. If [...]
I remember the first Thanksgiving when my sister decided to spend the holiday weekend with her serious boyfriend’s family instead of coming home. It also happened to be the Thanksgiving when my brother decided to spend the holiday travelling with his girlfriend instead of coming home. I spent the holiday [...]
Believe it or not, one of the most common questions I get asked is for suggestions for a “Paris theme” date. Well, why not? Paris is definitely one of the most beautiful spots in the whole world, and certainly known for being the most romantic. But if you can’t afford [...]
One of the biggest questions single girls have these days is whether or not to call a guy she is interested in. Some girls worry that calling her potential love interest may scare him away, while others believe that women should have every right to make a move just like [...]
There are a million reasons these days why your boyfriend might be unusually stressed out and busy…new job, new school, new financial situation, etc. With the country’s financial situation the way that it is, lots of people take on more responsibilities than they did before just to make ends meet [...]
Many singles wonder if it is possible to stay friends with an ex. The short answer is a qualified “yes.” It’s not always possible (or advisable.) If you’d like to stay pals with your ex, here are some tips to guide you.
Don’t Offer Friendship as a Way [...]
Think all the good women are taken? Think again! There are plenty of single women just looking for a wonderful guy. Want to know how to spot them? Here are a few strategies.
Facebook
Remember that cute girl from high school? Or how about the one you dated [...]
Facebook almost ruined my life.
I was one of the last people to jump on board the facebook train.
My profile picture was the question mark for about a year before I let the social media world know what I actually looked like. At first I really didn’t care much for the [...]
For all of you women out there who prefer a man who keeps his body and facial hair well-groomed…you are not alone! Remington Products recently conducted a poll of 435 males about their personal grooming habits and 440 females about what grooming styles they find most attractive. Men, unless [...]
One of the biggest questions singles have is how to meet someone special. If you’re a gal looking for the guy of your dreams, trust me when I say he is probably right around the corner. Here are five ways you can meet a guy (maybe even this weekend!)
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Everyone is feeling the pinch of the economy today, and it affects every area of our lives (including dating.) Daters want to provide a good first impression for the new person in their life without breaking the bank. It can be done! (I promise.) Sometimes dating frugally is simply just [...]
You’re about to get engaged! Yay for you! You want that moment when you propose to be the very best and the ring is a huge part of it. Before you run out and get something for your gal, here are some tips to consider.
Get Her Opinion
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Breaking up might seem like an easy thing to do, but there is actually an art to do well. (Like all things in life.) The key to breaking up with someone is to do it in a manner that leaves it as positive as it can possibly be. It’s not [...]
Think you can’t have a great date near the holidays? Think again! Here are some date ideas to spend with your sweetie on or near Thanksgiving.
Watch the Parade
Make a date to cuddle up on the couch and watch the Thanksgiving day parade. There is lot of [...]
Here is a common pattern that occurs when problems arise in relationships: get hurt, argue, resolve, apologize, move on. If you are in a relationship where you seem to argue quite frequently, you are probably more familiar with this pattern than others. If you are in a serious relationship you [...]
Have you ever had a friend that was in such a bad relationship, that you thought they needed professional help? I’m not talking about abuse, because in that case, intervene away.
I mean one of those co-dependent, on and off, so-wrong-for-each-other but can’t-stay-away-from-each-other relationships. For all intents and purposes, let’s just [...]
I’ve always said that dating is not for the faint of heart. It takes guts. There is rejection, patience, stepping outside your comfort zone… and that’s all with trying to figure out if the person you are with is the right one for you. It can be a lot.
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Everyone, it seems, is on some sort of social networking site. Websites like Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, and the like are great ways to keep in touch with people and share photos and information. Social networking makes you more accessible, but if you are dating, there are a few things you [...]
Women all around the world have toyed with this question at one point or another in their lives. Our biggest flaw, perhaps, is that we toy with this question for far too long! Yes, I too am guilty of procrastinating a break up or two. “He’s not that bad all [...]
There is a common thread amongst most women. We like bad boys. I’ve fallen for them, my friends have fallen for them and my friends friends have too. They’re magnetic. Most people would suggest that it’s because we instinctively want to change them. But I don’t think so. I want [...]
The idea of cutting an ex out of your life completely directly after breaking up is extremely painful. Your ex could be someone who you have lived with, loved, shared your life with, cared for, sacrificed for, opened up to, relied on, and so much more. So many elements of [...]
Do you think it’s possible to be friends with an ex? I’ve been giving this idea some thought lately. I’ve come to the conclusion that it depends on the ex. Other factors contribute including what sort of relationship it was, how it ended, if there are unresolved feelings.
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When my sister and her husband got married, a couple of girls that we grew up with sang a song by the Judds. I can’t remember the name of the song, which means it was a song that meant something important to their romance, but had very little to do [...]
I found a report on marriage and divorce that led me to look at both in a different way. People say things like, “divorce is on the rise” or “divorce rates are higher than ever,” but where do they get this information?
I grew up with divorced [...]
I love dressing up for Halloween! This year I have been a little disappointed with myself because I haven’t come up with the absolute perfect idea. Usually I spend about 11 months concocting something, but this year I might just be a little more boring than usual and use a [...]
Halloween is almost here. Do you have plans? Here are a few Halloween events for singlesin Toledo, Ohio, Irvine, California, and Marblehead, Massachusetts. Grab a costume, a good friend, and put your dancing shoes on. You never know where you might run into Prince Charming.
For more [...]
Back when Relationships used to be known as Dating Dames, I used to post links to the games and quizzes they’ve got over at Cosmo online. These quizzes are just for fun, so don’t expect any real serious advice. If you are looking to kill a little time, take a [...]
I just read a thought-provoking piece of advice from advice columnist E. Jean in Elle magazine’s November issue. A self-proclaimed nice guy (characterized as shy, clean-cut, good job, drug- and alcohol-free) asked E. Jean why women would choose to date five different types of jerks before even considering dating [...]
Where do you stand on the issue of midlife love? I read an excerpt from an interview with Diane Keaton that will be in the November 2009 issue of MORE Magazine.
Keaton, was the star of Something’s Gotta Give. In the movie she fell in love with two men – [...]
Cosmopolitan has an article up called, “How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back,” by Molly Triffin. Triffin says that “retrosexual romances” are the next big thing. Reconnecting with an ex is easier than ever with a little help from the internet. I have some experience with this myself – [...]
People spend most of their lives on the job these days. It can leave little time for other pursuits – including love. Office romances are no longer as taboo as they used to be. Use a few common sense rules – for example, date laterally, not vertically - and maybe you can [...]
Have you heard about new dating services that match singles based on their DNA? Instead of filling out forms with pages of personal questions, applicants for these matchmaking services send in a swab from the inside of their cheek for DNA analysis. I just read a fabulously interesting article in [...]
Some people dread the holidays, because it means forced family fun or having to spend time with people they are related to, but feel very little in relation to.
Growing up I didn’t give much thought to the uniqueness of my family. As a teenager I sometimes found certain aspects of [...]
While doing a bit of reading today, I found a link to Catherine Larose’s Cafe Girl Chronicles blog, by way of an excerpt at the More magazine website. More magazine is aimed at the 40+ age female. I can remember when 40 seemed sort of old to me, [...]
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